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Caribbean women take their power back by sharing stories of sexual abuse
Published on December 3, 2016 Email To Friend    Print Version

PORT OF SPAIN, Trinidad -- A powerful hashtag, #lifeinleggings, geared towards giving Caribbean women the space and support to share their stories of sexual harassment, is exploding on Facebook and Twitter. Created by two Barbadian women who wanted to demonstrate the disturbing degree to which sexual harassment is part of Caribbean culture, the hashtag has now gained regional traction.

"Woman behind bars", from a series of anti-catcalling, pro-respect posters. Photo by flickr user Wendy, CC BY-NC 2.0
The stories that women of every age, ethnicity and economic background have been sharing are alarming -- from posts about victim-shaming and being forced into silence, to tales of intimidation, misguided expressions of admiration, the rampant sexual abuse of minors and the proclivity of their guardians for sweeping it under the rug.

Crystal Roslyn Mary Granado remembered her childhood trauma: “He was asked to watch the kids while Mom went to the store. I was three. He told me to come sit on his knee. I said no. You smell. He made me sit on his knee. Pulled apart my baby legs and ripped my panties off and stuck his fat calloused fingers inside of my vagina. I cried. He said he would make my mother beat me. I was afraid. I hate you.”

Women also talked about the lifelong burden of living with the abuse and the ways in which the daily fear of being assaulted informs their behaviour.

Cho Sundari said she is constantly on the alert: “Walking with my key in my hand, ready at all times to be used in self defence. Looking behind me at least three times before I reach my car. Checking the back seat before I open the door. Opening the door quickly, slamming myself on the seat. Shut the door and lock doors immediately. Sigh. Start ignition. Drive.”

One Twitter user had a difficult time reading through all the posts: “#LifeInLeggings is utterly soul-crushing to just read. There have been points when I had to stop because I could not stomach any more.”

Many talked about being abused when they were very young, often by close friends and family members. Others talked about harassment in the workplace and the corresponding sense of male privilege.

Trinidadian attorney Justin Phelps noted that the stories flooding social media were way more than a hashtag, and challenged people to think more deeply about its societal implications:

“#LifeinLeggings is the story of women AND girl children btw. A large number of the stories are of childhood events. Add the stories of our male children. Add the stories of our dead children. Measure the country's level of civilization against that. Hold that up to the debates you hear in Parliament […] the disrespect and contempt meted out on top of that. Match it against ‘civil society’ who is about ‘country first’, the police service which features negatively in many of the stories, the parents who watch and stay silent, the parents who just stupid, the deviants, the pretenders. Maybe we can muster enough energy for something other than money and vanity to ‘riot’ after all. Nah, too risky.”

The stories, interwoven so strongly through the hashtag, begin to paint a picture of rape culture in the Caribbean. One social media user, posting on the Facebook page of the feminist group Womantra, offered advice on how to counteract this attitude: “Be gross. Pick up space. Attack using any and all weapons in your arsenal: cussing, humour, disgustingness, anger, shyness, needing a friend, tears…. I the Feminist Fairy grant you the power…”

Female netizens were overwhelmingly vocal in their support for the brave women who were sharing their stories. As the testimonies poured out, a sisterhood was being formed -- so many women could identify with the experiences; had been through something similar themselves.

Christine Sankar shared an example of the kind of street harassment most Caribbean women have faced at some time or another: “Ignoring men when they're cat-calling and calling out to you as ‘Beautiful’ ‘Sexy’ ‘Family’, and as soon as you pass them, they further disrespect you by telling you that ‘You not that nice anyways’ or ‘One day someone would f*ck that stink attitude out of you’ with some of them even going to the extent of yanking on your shoulder or following you.”

While most netizens were full of praise for the hashtag's creators, saying it was “time for this taboo to get broken”, one young woman was curious as to why the discussion -- under the theme “leggings” -- was gendered, arguing that men were also victims of sexual abuse.

As the hashtag spread, there were calls for men to express support for the cause. Many did -- but others tried to make light of the situation and invalidate women's testimonies. The backlash was harsh and immediate, especially when men used the narrative of women's attire as justification for sexual abuse.

Denica Shute made it very clear: “Women are deserving of respect regardless of what we wear and we refuse to subscribe to the notion that men simply cannot help themselves to sexually harass or abuse a woman because of what she is wearing.”

Raeesa Francis-Ochoa added: “Men who have an issue with the hashtag #LifeInLeggings are the reason why this hashtag exists. In 2016, why is it still not okay for a woman to vent about the abuse at experienced from childhood to adulthood which still affect her daily and she may never be fully healed? Additionally, why are women also finding issues with the hashtag? Just because you don't have an experience or feel like sharing your own, doesn't mean you can be Petty Patty and stop others from participating in the trend.”

Indeed, it was widely agreed that the machismo with which Caribbean boys are socialised is part of the problem.

The situation escalated when one Trinidadian man attempted to create a #lifeinpants hashtag, based on his perception that #lifeinleggings was “implicating all men in a social atrocity”. His posts with the hashtag were subsequently removed. Women lashed out in astonishment and disgust.

Rhoda Bharath commented: “When from hairless babies to balding grannies get raped, but you feel attacked by a hashtag.”

Carima Nemai posted: “#lifeinleggings made it as easy and common to demonize men as it has been easy and common over the years to objectify and sexually assault women. Obviously not every man is guilty and not every woman would have been a victim, but the rape culture is bigger than every one of us! See and feel that!”

Dion Boucaud said: “You cannot decry a legitimate movement by making the issue somehow about yourself and then, when you are called on your bullshit, berate and chastise everyone […] who disagrees with you. Then today you're crying oppression, stating that you're attacked by perceived feminist because they don't agree with your useless opinion. All that makes you is a special kind of stupid.”

Photographer Mark Lyndersay added: “The #lifeinleggings hashtag is a challenge for men. Some to confront the horror of these stories, others to know their place and to understand that these are women's stories to tell, whatever their tone and sentiment… These stories are about a line ignored, crossed and trampled on. If you are a man, read them without making it about you.”

The hashtag has helped to jump start a long overdue regional conversation, and there have already been some important takeaways -- that the region's rape culture has been handed down over generations; that victims’ silence only makes predators more powerful; and most importantly, that through education and legislation, more girls and women could be spared the trauma of sexual abuse.

This article by Janine Mendes-Franco originally appeared on Global Voices on December 2, 2016
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